CA stands for Crazy Adventures

August 7-17, 2015

Funny how the last time I went to visit Laura at Mount Hermon near Santa Cruz, I ended up working for a day. And here I was again, finding myself in the same position, although this time it was a slightly different setting. Instead of helping people off a zip line, I got to chat with guests while aboard a catamaran cruising around the bay.


A great way to start my visit to California, but not with out a strange occurrence.  The conversation topic of my future plans founds its way into many a conversation while at sea. I have yet to figure out why I am surprised that this keeps happening but low and behold, I soon found out that one of the guests has a sister-in-law that lives in Hilo, HI. The shock shows up all over my face yet again. This time, however, contact information is passed. Hope springs inside me that this connection might lead to some housing in a place that I am moving to and know not yet where I am living. The realistic side of me though weighs the probability. Not very likely, but I still cherish yet another encounter where someone knows someone living in Hilo. Deep down I can admit that I have little understanding of what is going to unfold in the next month, but I think I can rest in the knowledge that I am heading in the right direction.

In the mean time I got to help decorate for the end of the summer party, try surfing, and continue on the Be Messy Journal project.

I too managed to pull Laura away from her work. I amazing it felt to go camping!! Pinnacles National Park is one of the younger National Parks and completely off my radar. I was reminded once again why I love the National Parks: diversity. All across the country the unique gems of the United State’s landscape are showcased and preserved. 

Big Sur was too a great drive that I had yet to experience; a superb road trip to add to the many miles that Laura and I have spent in a car together. Witnessing a sunset at a purple sand beach was just the cherry on top.

The Colorado Connection

August 4-7, 2015

As I was looking out the window next to me, with the landscape far below I couldn’t help contemplating two things: Where has time gone? For the past month and a half I have been seeing so many wonderful people that I haven’t seen in years – some even beyond a decade. How is that possible? In my memory palace, I can recall the last place and year that I saw each person, like a great wall of framed moments of my experiences that all seem like they happened yesterday. Yet when I take the picture off the wall and flip it over, the date on the back sets me back. How can it be that the last time I saw this wonderful friend was in Florida in 2010?

Yet that is the case from my friend and former roommate Lauren. The days of Grad-school craziness are so clear; I can easily recall the first day we met. Now, she is living in Colorado on her way to being a paramedic.

My visit to Colorado was jam packed as I wove in time with cousins I hadn’t seen is years and my old Duke boss, Levi. My visit with Levi included a tour of UC Boulder and a small paragraph in our conversations that led to me second item of contemplation: Can the world really be that small?

When in Western North Carolina a matter of weeks ago, I met someone during my cousins Bible study that has a grandmother that lives in Hilo. As I was filling Levi in on my next adventure, he proceeds to tell me that his sister lives in Hilo, HI. Naturally, my internal reaction was WHHAAATTT!!?!?! I shared a cubical with this guy for months and never recalled him mentioning this. True I might not have remembered the town but having a sister that lives in the state of Hawaii is a pretty fun fact to throw out there.

Fortunately, my last stop before Hawaii includes a dear friend that I have seen within the last 365 days. Time to touchdown in California.

The Final Countdown

July 20 - August 3, 2015

The Final Countdown

My arrival in Michigan triggered action. I had a long laundry list of things to accomplish while at my dad’s house:

·  Unpack the car

·  Go through all boxes in old room and consolidate

·  Find places to store all of my stuff

·  Get physical and TB test

·  Transfer car title to dad

·  Slim down the Hawaii packing list one more time

·  Fill out all paperwork for the new job

And the most important – see as many wonderful friends and relatives as I can. This translated into a surprise (belated) birthday party at my Aunt’s house, horseback riding at my Uncle’s, talk music with another Uncle, and lent a helping hand with my Aunt in flipping a house.  

Cardboard Boat Race on the Black River

Naturally my list of things to do also had items that engaged in the delights of the summer season in a small town. My timing couldn’t have been better as Music in the Park was in full swing, the annul Swinging Bridge Festival was just a block away, the every poplar Arts and Crafts Fair was happening in Lexington. Times like these make me so glad I grew up in a small town.

TV News Anchor/Musician Devin Scillian

Now, it was time for this small-town girl to transfer to another slightly bigger small town in the middle of the Pacific. As is per usual, I have to make a few stops on the journey there.

Loop-of-Love Road Trip Chronicles: To Michigan

July 19-20, 2015

From the beginning of this road trip, I knew I couldn’t bop around the country with all of my belongings in tow. So Laura from the greenhouse so graciously let me store half my belongings in her garage. After hours of strategically planning, rearranging, and making sure every nook and cranny of space had something to fill it my time to fully leave Pennsylvania had finally come.

One more final stop on my Loop-of-Love had to be made, even if for only a few hours: Sandusky, OH. A long-time friend I have known for 17 years, but hadn’t seen in 10 years carved our a few hours in her afternoon to catch up with an old friend! The last time I saw Jamie was when I was working my way back to Michigan from Colorado and took a pit stop at her house in Indianapolis. Now our paths were converging yet again but this time in the town where we worked together for a summer.

Another great flood of memories, and I got to see the streets that I walked so often and the building jammed full with some many Kaman’s Art Shoppe workers that made the trek to America’s Rockin’ Rollar Coast: Cedar Point everyday.

Even with only a few hours, Jamie infused our time together with so much laughter and life and a much-needed swim on a very hot summer day in Ohio.

Loop-of-Love Road Trip Chronicles: Virginia

July 17-19, 2015

The last leg of my loop was still a bit uncertain when I left North Carolina. Heading north I knew I was going to visit my mom in the mountains north of Roanoke, but I wasn’t sure if my journey would take me further in to the mountains to see a long-time, childhood friend.

Even after reaching my mom’s house, I still didn’t know if it was going to work out. Then, in the Makenzy (Watson) fashion from the days of old the phone rang. Her and her family had just returned from Michigan, but where very willing to let me come and visit.

The last time I had driven the winding roads to Montery, VA was in May of 2009. I love how in 6 years our roles and responsibilities may have changed, but the essence of our old childhood selves still found ways to surface in beautiful ways.

Now back to Pennsylvania.

Loop-of-Love Road Trip Chronicles: Western North Carolina

July 14-17, 2015

The road continued to take me west, as I headed to see the first round of family on my journey, Nathan and Olivia. Three days of relaxed activity was just what I needed after my quick succession of friends. I did get to enjoy some of the natural features of the Asheville area with lazy tubing adventure down a river.  I too felt like I was in college again as we join some of their friends for a spontaneous ice cream social at a grocery store. 

The craziest moment however was when I first got there. I arrived just in time for their weekly Bible study. I always enjoy meeting peoples friends and getting a glimpse into their day-to-day schedule. One of the people in the group asked what I do, which naturally led to a conversation about Hawaii. She asked which part. In turn I answered Hilo. With a surprised look on her face she told me that she had been there before to visit her grandmother. From my understanding, Hilo was not a big metropolis by any means and was too surprised by the coincidence. I took it as a good sign.

My last stop in North Carolina wasn’t to see a person, but a place. I was heading northeast from the next part of my journey and decided to take a pit stop in a place I hadn’t seen in just over 6 years: Stone Mountain State Park. Many parts of the 5-mile hike were exactly as I remember. Other parts were not (my legs feeling like jell-o). I realized, after I hiked for a little while, that I was hiking in the opposite direction then they way we took with groups back in the day when I worked with Camp Cheerio. Still the views were well worth and loved all of the wonderful memories that flooded back around each turn. 

Next stop Virginia

Loop-of-Love Road Trip Chronicles: Central North Carolina

July 12-14, 2015

My journey continued west as my next stop took me to Greensboro, NC where I caught Kara the day before she moved from the state. Timing could not have been better as I was able to help her pack her things to head back to PA. Yes, once again I found my path crossing with people to help them move. This was full circle for Kara, as I helped her pack to move to North Carolina less than a year prior. 

After my visit with Kara I headed an hour south of Greensboro to Asheboro, NC. A long time friend was always willing to open her door to me and I couldn’t miss the opportunity to catch up with her and her husband. This was another opportunity to witness a friend enter the new role of parent- something that has be a longing of their hearts for so long. My short visit with them ended with lunch at a restaurant called The Table. The amazing food served changed with the season as it was all locally produced and grown. 

Loop-of-Love Road Trip Chronicles: Eastern North Carolina

July 9-12, 2015

As a former place of residence on a couple of occasions, North Carolina has a line of wonderful people that I had a huge tug to see. From former college suitemates and RAs to former housemates and coworkers and friends and family my list was long of wonder people I wanted to see and catch-up with. 

Although a hard working mom- I was so glad Ginger (Cary, NC) stayed up passed her bedtime to experience the card game Marrying Mr. Darcy with me. I loved seeing her and her husband interact with their 3 month-old-son.

My visit to Duke was full of new sights and changes as new buildings that were started when I was there were finished. The Duke Pond was only a concept when I first started and now I could see all of its potential! Having lunch with and chatting with former co-workers warmed my heart and made me laugh on so many occasions, such wonderful people still causing the same old trouble.

A visit to Durham wouldn’t be complete without a trip to the Duke gardens. I enjoyed touring the grounds talking with my old roommate Ting about all of the places in the US she traveled to since I moved away. It warmed my heart to know that she found a group of adventurous friends that could pull her away from her stressful job and enjoy the diversity of this country.

My Grace Church family was represented through breakfast with Melissa and her sweet smile and some art fun with Brandi. I miss the Grace Church community of so many levels and these too ladies are such a treasure.

Loop-of-Love Road Trip Chronicles: New Jersey

July 1-8, 2015

I fully understand that to make it to Michigan from Pennsylvania one should travel north and a little West. The fact that I decided to head straight east to New Jersey may seem a little confusing. When I take into consideration all that I did last year there is one fact that sticks out in capital letters and bold font: I had ZERO flight miles the ENTIRE YEAR. I was itching to get some serious traveling in.

With my departure from the mainland happening in a month and a half, I jumped at the change to do an amazing loop of love to see roommates and friends of old before heading to the middle of the pacific. 

New Jersey was the first stop as I had a great need to decompress the year. With a hard winter, a busy season at the green house, and my future floating up in the air for so long I had a huge need to retreat from the normal pace of life. Fortunately, I have a great friend that I have known these 17 years that just started working at a retreat center.

My week in NJ was just what the doctor ordered. As is usually the case, I find my way to being involved in some kind of project or two and my week with the Voss’ was no different. With many of their items still in boxes in storage, each day a small organizational project was woven into the schedule. This naturally led to a couple of trips to IKEA, but we also found time to enjoy the summer festivities including fireworks display in honor of the country’s birthday and a birthday trip for me to NYC- such a wonderful treat and a great way to round off my visit. Thanks to the Voss’ for opening your home to me as a much needed haven.

Time to head south

Packing: My Old Life Fits in a Car and Future Life into a Backpack and Carry-on

Ever since accepting a job in Hawaii, my mind as been forming to lists: What to take and What to leave behind. 

What to Take:

In four days I had to predict what I was going to need to survive the coming year...and it all had to fit in a backpack and a carry-on suitcase. How in the world does one even begin? This is where a sixth sense came in to play. I started with the essentials, figuring out the bear minimum I needed to survive on my own. For as of this moment, I have no place to live in Hawaii so I have to be prepared for anything. So I created kits: sewing kit, first aid kit, craft kit, mess kit, bathroom kit, office supply kit, tool kit...the smallest amount of the essential things for each kit. After all, the last thing I want to do is move to a place and buy a bunch of things that I already own. 

Then I moved to clothing. Fortunately, Hawaiian weather doesn't require many of the bulky warm clothes that a Pennsylvania winter requires. However, I did have to be prepared to travel to colder places. Strategy: Layers. So I created a wardrobe that has elements that layer together well while also covering the basic requirements for my job's dress code. 

Important consideration: Hilo is the 2nd rainiest city in the United States. So I have to leave room for things that have yet to be purchased (i.e. amazing rain coat).

Main frustration....Shoes. Their odd shape and bulky nature make this task very challenging. 

What I Have to Leave Behind:

My Dad has been so gracious in allowing me to leave the rest of my belongings at his house in Michigan. The challenge now is getting them there. The only option is my car and a car-top carrier that my mom got me for Christmas this past year. The biggest challenge of my packing skills to date. Here is how it all played out.

Big thanks to Laura Burkholder for helping me in so many ways with this move!!

First stop: New Jersey

New Jersey?? Yup. New Jersey. Not Michigan....all will be explained. Stay tuned.