May 26, 2009

The Results Are In

May 26, 2009
After spending a total of 27 hours driving for the last week and a half, I am back at work in Mouth of Wilson, VA. The journey began in Tennessee and from there went to Marion, Indiana. As the next week began, I headed back to Virginia but not to camp just yet. Instead, I first went to Monterey, VA to visit Makenzy Canze aka Makenzy Watson, someone I have known since I have had the ability to make memories. The Watson hospitality was definitely in her blood as she made me feel right at home and an honored guest.
For the short part of my visit when it wasn’t raining, Makenzy gave me the walking tour of the small town of Monterey.





The library was also a place to visit, as it was the only place with Internet access. With my GA position interview still sitting in the back of my mind, I checked my email hoping to have an answer but realistically expecting it not to be there for some time. Waiting wasn’t even an option as I saw the answer right before me sitting in my inbox.

I have officially accepted the GA position and will be starting Grad school in the fall…. well technically I will be starting classes in January. It is hard to explain and slightly confusing (completely out of character for me I know) so just know come mid-August I will be heading to Tennessee.

May 24, 2009

The Newest Addition

May 24, 2009
Can I have your attention please? I have an announcement.
An announcement?
Yes, an announcement. I would like all of you to be the first to know that the number of children that will call me Auntie Heather has now doubled from one niece to a niece and nephew. Casey William Sephton was born today in the Sephton home. Both the Mother and baby are doing well. Mark could not be more proud to have a son, and Lois is already embracing the role of big sister.

May 17, 2009

One Step Closer

May 17, 2009
Spring session at Camp Cheerio has come to a close. I have all my gear back in my car as I start to travel west towards Chattanooga, TN. Do not be alarmed. I plan to return to Cheerio Adventures in Virginia in a week and a half for the summer session. Currently, it is time to look at life beyond the summer. I have been contemplating Graduate School for some time now. With the GED behind me and an application sent in, the only thing stopping me from going is money. So when you don’t have the money to pay for it yourself, find someone else to pay for you to go.
Thus, I am heading to an interview for a Graduate Assistant position in the Outdoor Leadership department at Southern Adventist University in Collegedale, TN. My interview will consist of leading a group from Volkswagen through a morning on the challenge course. I am going to have to dig a little to get back into corporate facilitation mode. My nerves have already begun to surface. Just like finding a pair of old jeans at the bottom of your drawer. You hold them up hoping they still fit.

May 13, 2009

The Days In-between



May 13, 2009
While life at camp seems like one long day sometimes, there have been times when I have been able to get away. One weekend off took me to Garner, NC just outside of Raleigh to visit Ginger. The last time I saw Ginger was only a few weeks before at Lynette’s wedding where she told us about the new house that she was going to buy. This was the perfect opportunity to see said new house and also help her move a few things.



Being a new homeowner, Ginger was very excited about being able to do things on her own. So naturally there was a list of projects that she wanted me to help with. The first being re-key the locks. Being a person of research, Ginger found a kit that you could buy to make re-keying locks a snap. Well, as always nothing is a guaranteed snap as we made a couple of trips to Lowe’s and found out that the kit is only for a certain type of lock and that the anatomy of the door handle is built in such a way that you really have to see a professional if you want to just re-key a lock and not buy all new door handles. Lesson learned.



Another project was to get her brand new lawn mower put together because she now has a lawn to mow. This project was a little disappointing for the both of us as well because there really wasn’t anything to put together. The hardest thing was lifting it out of the box. Once out of the box, all we had to do was push a button and the whole thing just unfolded with great ease; a great relief for the common consumer but for the average independent women it was disheartening.



The following weekend I had another couple of days off so I hopped into the car once again to head to Virginia for Mother’s Day. This short time away proved to be relaxing and restful as Mom and I did our usual activities when we get together: read, walk, talk, and eat. All of which are very important to make days off successful.

May 2, 2009

The Cheerio Adventure

May 2, 2009

Three weeks have passed already. It seems like yesterday I was driving my car down to Camp Cheerio, fighting fatigue from the big event the day before. My focus for so long was the wedding that after it was all said and done my mind actually started to compute how tired I really was.

Now with three weeks behind me here I definitely feel more comfortable. However, I, being the only Camp Cheerio rookie, have had quite the learning curve. After two days of training, the first group arrived, seventy 7th graders.
My experience working with groups in the past has been vast but the total quantity has been on the smaller size when it comes to the entire group size. I will freely admit that a group this size was a bit daunting. Well, I am very fortunate that I am a fast learner because the next week, the group was 140 people. This time, they were 5th graders.

That group was the start of a ten-day marathon. After three days, the bus pulled away and we started to get ready for a bike trip on the Outer Banks of North Carolina. Like I mentioned before, I am the only rookie here at Cheerio. With only a certain number of spots available for this bike trip I figured I wouldn’t make the cut. To my surprise, I was picked and we were off to meet our 42 9th graders in Kinston, NC.

This bike trip has been happening for the past 15 years or so. Many of the teachers of the students have been coming for years as well as many of the Cheerio staff. With the logistics of this trip running like clock work, my main job was to ride with a group of about 8 kids for three days. After a slight flat tire setback (about 2 hours) at the Wal-mart 30 minutes from Camp, we made it to our hotel before dinner.

4:30am the next morning we were up and moving to make it to the school to pick up the kids by 6am. In 45 minutes we had to load all of the bikes and then drive another two and a half hours to catch the ferry that would take us to the Outer Banks. This was the greatest stress of the trip. In years past the ferry left at 12:30pm. This year, the ferry left at 10:30am or 2:30pm. With 19 miles to bike that day, the 2:30pm time was not going to work.

We got to the ferry with time to spare and enjoyed the 2-hour ride. We served lunch on the bus, having the kids enter from the back and run through buffet style exiting from the front. Clever set up I thought.

The ferry reached Ocracoke, and the kids separated into groups. I was the sweeper that day so my group had to arrive at the final destination last. Not the most attractive reason to join a group on the first day. So I ended up with an interesting mix of people. I would call them the default group in a lot of ways. A lot of the other groups were too large, so the overflow headed my way not always willingly. I also had some people with health concerns that restricted the speed at which we could bike which caused a little tension. 9th grade boys have a lot of energy and a need for speed. On the 2nd day we had to bike 31 miles. I had to hold them back on several occasions, give a lecture here and there, but that just comes with job. However, we did get to stop and spend time at the ocean and tour the Cape Hatteras lighthouse.

I think out off all the days that we biked the last day was my favorite. It was the shortest day of them all, only 10 miles. There was one student who had ridden with in my group on the 1st day, but because of his battle with a severe illness, he was only able to ride about 8 miles. The second day, he didn’t ride with us at all but met us at the lighthouse and hiked up the 257 steps to the top with me. He really wanted to give biking another go on the last day. Originally, he was going to meet us about 4 miles from the end and then finish with us. He asked me how long I thought he rode on the first day and I told him. “Only two more miles that the first day. I will give it a try,” he said.
Within the first mile the rest of the group was pulling away fast. I had a teacher leading the pack so it didn’t bother me at all if the group separated. They were in good hands. I wanted him to go at any pace that he could do for the distance we had to go. We stopped often for breaks sometimes at my suggestion sometimes at his. Mile by mile we kept going at a pace that was perfect to take in the view. My heart went out to him as I could see evidence of the physical struggle he was facing. I prayed for a nice tailwind to push him along. At one point, we stopped for a break and I could tell he was close to calling it quits. He didn’t. The tailwind that I asked for never came; the finish did. We made it to the end of the ride with groups still behind us.

The frustrations of the previous day no longer existed. It was hard to know what to feel at that point. Personally, I didn’t have to push myself on the ride. But I did get to witness the power of the human will. I couldn’t help but think about some of the struggles that I have faced in my life and how they don’t even begin to compare with what he is facing everyday…a humbling experience.

With the busses loaded, we started the long drive back to Camp. Arriving just before 10pm, we unloaded all the gear and went to bed. The next group was already there. A 7am wake-up call was like sleeping in but my energy tank was already running pretty low. Two days later this group of fifty 8th graders left. I was exhausted but as I had been experiencing during all my days at Camp Cheerio thus far, the days are long but at the end I am able to lay my head on my pillow and feel a sense of satisfaction.

April 11, 2009

Introducing Mr. and Mrs. Todd…I mean Matthew Voss!

April 11, 2009

Lynette and I woke up early. Although the square dance was a wild time, the Big Day was finally here. Hours and months of preparation came down to this day: Lynette’s wedding day. Her days as a single woman were coming to a close. But before that could happen, we had to go get our hair done. Then get ourselves to the church to get our faces painted. Now time to get dressed, which for me meant it was time to put the heals on. Lynette put on her Chacos. A minute later, we were all dressed and prepped for pictures. (I am going to have to throw modesty out the window here and say that we both pretty much looked HOT! Yup. Both of us are not the type to dress up, do anything with our hair, or in my case even own make-up.












This was a very BIG advantage.

With details being covered by Ginger and the rest of the gang, stress was not about to show up on this day. We were prepared and ready. The picture taking process began with clans, then extended families, grandparents, and on down to the bridal party. It was a long process, but when my turn came around we got to throw some fun shots in there too (i.e. Lynette and I pretending to fight each other with our bouquets).

The awaited moment finally arrived. The crowd stood as the bride walked down the aisle to meet her groom. I worked hard to pay attention to what was said. But as the maid of honor and the only on in the bridal party, I had a lot to think about. I had several places I had to stand and move to as well as hold two bouquets, fix the bride’s train and try my hardest not to fall over (remember, I was wearing heals).

Vows were said, the bride was dipped for her kiss, and Matt and Lynette were finally married. Mr. and Mrs. Voss made there way over to the reception in the Student Center Piazza, as did the guests for the social event of the season.

Although there was no dancing to entertain the guest, there was Steve Lennox and our good friend Aletheia to keeps the crowds entertain. As the MCs of the event, it was their job to introduce the wedding party and finally the Bride and Groom. All was going well. Aletheia and Steve were doing a fine job. The moment arrived for Aletheia to introduce the happy couple. She was prepared and let Steve know it was all her. With Stevie Wonder’s Signed, Sealed, and Delivered playing in the background, Aletheia raises the mic and announces, “And now give it up for our happy couple, Mr. and Mrs. Todd…I mean Matthew Voss.” Laughter fills the room as embarrassment overcomes Aletheia. As an employee of Indiana Wesleyan where Dr. Todd Voss’s name is heard and said on a daily basis, everyone could understand how she could easily slip up. Leave it to Aletheia to make these more memorable.

The rest of the reception was filled with more funny and memorable moments perfectly sequenced. The food was fantastic and the punch to die for. The evening was culminated with one final photo shoot outside at the fountain. With students and friends holding Voss water bottles, we all jumped off the fountain with the bride and groom for one last hurrah.

The time came for the good-byes to begin. Not only did I have to say good-bye to Matt and Lynette, but I also had to say good-bye to all the friends that were made over the past seven months. North Carolina was my next destination. The beginning of a new chapter.

April 10, 2009

Wesleyans can Dance

April 10, 2009

All her life, little Lynette imagined her wedding. She always imagined all those that she loved gathering in one place, sharing this important milestone in her life. Well, she might not have always imagined exactly that but something she discovered in all the weddings she has been to over the years is that the wedding is good and all, but the reception should be where the party is at. Her idea: have square dancing. Everyone, young and old, can do it and really don’t have to have a lot of rhythm. So when it came to planning her wedding, a square dance had to be worked in. For her, it was a non-negotiable.

Slight problem. Although the doctrine of the Wesleyan Church has changed as has the policy at Indiana Wesleyan there was some fine print that wasn’t going to allow Lynette to have a square dance at her reception.

Solution: Have a square dance at the rehearsal dinner. After a few more hiccups on a location, everything was in place and a square dance caller was found.

Unfortunate Setback: Original Caller, Dick, has a stroke days before the big event. While in the hospital, Dick final says the word “wedding” to remind his wife that he won’t be able to make it. Bless his heart.

A replacement is found and the day of the dreamed about (and much talked of) event takes place. Coupled with homemade ice cream, the night is a complete success. People who would never get up on a dance floor were dancing the night away and having the time of their lives. And to top it all off, people dressed the part. There was everything from overalls to authentic western shirts, hats, and cowboy boots (thanks Goodwill).

It is true Lynette had to fight for this event to take place. By the end of the night, the fight was well worth it as everyone walked away happy to discover that Wesleyan’s actually can dance.

March 31, 2009

Creating the Next Generation

March 29, 2009

Babies, babies, and more babies. Spring brings new life all around us and so is the case for many of the family friends that I grew up with. This past weekend, I headed back home to Michigan for Mindy (Watson) Drummond’s baby shower. Baby Drummond is the first in the line up of babies coming into the world. He will arrive in early May. My nephew will be coming in late May. My cousin will be having her baby girl in the beginning of June and Mindy’s sister Melissa will have her baby boy in late June.

It was great being at Mindy’s shower because the entire hometown crowd was there including all of the Watson clan and most of the Adams family. With many of us being spread out to different parts of the country and the world it has been a long time since all of the Westbrook, Watson, and Adams clans have been together. It was good to be reunited once more as the circle continues to grow with the next generation.

March 25, 2009

SB 09 Family Reunions

March 25, 2009

It seemed that 2 days of separation was too much for the group of us. The Wednesday after Spring Break we found ourselves back together once again for a family dinner to celebrate Jordan’s birthday complete with a piñata. 2 days later is was movie night with The Man from Snowy River and the night after that the girls got together to make granola and a thank you card for Chuck and Jean.

After a week you would think our attachment to each other would have died down, especially with the routine of school decreasing free time. Not the case as I invited everyone over for another family dinner the following Wednesday. 7 days after that, a campfire with smores out at Ketchum Woods.

After all of the trips that I have been on with a group of people, rarely have I seen this happen. I have left trips with talks of reunions but have never actually been to one let along 5. This is a true testament to what the outdoors can do. We found ourselves facing several crises over that short week which made all of us realize that we needed each other to lean on and found that we were all there to support each other. And still are.

March 9, 2009

Spring Break 09

February 28 – March 7, 2009
Sea Kayaking
Little St. George Island, FL

I don’t even know where to begin when it comes to describing this trip. Lynette asked me to co-lead this trip with her at first but ended up backing out due to the upcoming wedding. Leah and I along with Ryan Bowen and Chris Collins loaded up vans with 7 other girls and 9 other guys and started the drive down to St. George Island.

The word of the week was Epic and that really is the only term I can think of to describe this trip. Quick summary:



Saturday
6:30am: Leave for Florida
11:30pm: Arrive at Journeys (Kayak rental place) sleep in vans in parking lot.

Sunday
Wake up cold with the van swaying in the wind
Because of the windy conditions, no go on kayaking to the island
Hang out at local diner Fire Station #9
Met Chuck and Jean. They give us some ideas one what to do in the area.
Explore Tate’s Hell (really, that is what it is called)
Meet Chuck and Jean for pizza. They offer the girls a place to stay. The boys head to Rod’s house…a guy that Emily (one of the girls) met earlier in the day and offered to help us out

Monday
Get the okay to put the boats in on the Gulf side even though it is still a little windy
Strap all gear to boats
Start the 6 miles journey to Little St George Island.
Jake capsizes
Get Jake into his boat
I capsize
I get back into my boat
Start paddling
3 miles in the group gets spread out at this point. The main focus: getting over the waves.
Hear someone yelling “Help”
Head towards the shore, Christa’s boat is sinking.
Get half the group on shore. Dump boats, get people moving to stay warm. More of the group arrives. Point out the ambulance lights flashing back down the beach.
Rescue truck arrives to see how we were doing. Inform us of the situation down the beach. 4 people from the group have hypothermia.
Series of events lead to the entire group reuniting once again with everyone in one piece and just fine.
Fire Chief offers us a place to stay in the firehouse.
Have dinner, dry out, and play a couple rounds of Bingo complete with a legit Bingo board.

Tuesday
Put the boats in the water once again this time on the bayside.
Make it to the Island with no issues. Amazing!
Set up camp
Make dinner. Enjoy campfire. Go to bed.

Wednesday
Wake up to tent making whipping sounds
Stay awake for the rest of the night wondering if our tent is going to blow away with all of us in it.
Finally breakfast time
Guys hike to different part of island
Girls have a relaxing day in the sun with some good conversation
Move the tent to a less windy location
Enjoy a good nights sleep

Thursday
Wake up to beautiful sunrise
Girls start the hike to the research center on the island
Guys visit it in the morning and start hiking back to the base camp
Explore research center and make it back to camp just in time for dinner
Round of Silent Football around the fire
Sleep






Friday
Wake up to a beautiful day. All head to the beach to enjoy last day on the island
Paul whips out his blue leisure suit for prom
Feast by the fire with deep questions and new insights
Say good night

Saturday
Early wakeup call
Boats back in the water on the bayside
Make it back to the kayak trailer with out a problem
Load the vans to head back
Flight the crowds as the Annual Chili Cook-off invades St. George Island


Sunday
The Black Widow (the mini van) having some problems
7:30am Arrive at IWU completely exhausted

I would include in here the original plan but I can hardly remember it. God had a different plan for us and showed Himself so many times throughout the trip through providing us with places to stay or having a dolphin give us a show as we did our morning yoga. The trip started with 20 strangers piling in to vans. At the end of it all, we came back a family with memories of a trip that with be engraved in our memories for years to come.